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Losing My Parents to the Immigration System

Ro
8 min readOct 4, 2021

Not really the catchy title I was going for…

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It was a regular Friday morning, my dad was on his way home from his second grave yard shift that week while my mom poked her head in our room to make sure my six-year-old sister and I were awake. The smell of burnt popcorn lingered in the air from the previous night. My sister and I huffed and puffed while fighting over the sink space brushing our teeth getting ready for school. I was tired from staying up late reading my Jodi Picoult book — my sister was tired from me lighting up the room with my reading lamp.

My mom always had us prepare our clothes the night before school but I was not feeling the outfit that morning so I was already moody leaving the house. Little did I know, my outfit was going to be the least of my worries that day. Scratch that — little did WE know that day was the last time we would all be in that house together as a family. A house that my parents worked hard to purchase just shy of a year…

The last period bell rings and I made my way to my locker to grab the text books needed for my homework for the weekend. My bestfriend at the time invited me over for the weekend & I already knew what my mom’s answer would be but I entertained her anyway while making our way towards the exit. I overlooked the cops standing near the exit of the school building…

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I cannot imagine how emotional this experience was for you and your sister. I hope your sister is doing as well as you seem to be, by that, I mean you have strong coping skills. To become a nurse is a lot of work and you must be driven. What you've…

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Rose,
After reading your story, I feel more closer to you because I know little part of your struggle and trauma, which I think is what makes us or breaks us as people. All that you went through for 14 years has made you who you are like you said…

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Life has a crazy way of teaching us lessons and even though I never asked for this lesson, the adult that I am today is stronger than I ever would have imagined myself to be.

Thanks for sharing this little bit of your life. Immigration is such a confusing, traumatic thing for everyone involved. I hope your dream comes true and when you reunite with your parents that you can sip wine with your mom and take a walk with your dad.

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